Their father had passed away, leaving an estate worth around £1.2 million. The main asset was the family home. He left no will. Under the rules of intestacy, the estate was to be split equally between them. The older brother was appointed administrator.
The problem started immediately. The younger brother lived in Dubai and wanted to sell the house, take his half, and invest it. The older brother, who lived in the UK, wanted to keep the property. He had children and saw it as their future. The argument was not just about money. It was about memory, and two different views of what their father would have wanted. Their relationship broke down.
The Six-Month Clock
What neither brother understood was the timeline. An estate of that size generates a significant Inheritance Tax bill. In this case, it was approximately £230,000. HMRC requires payment within six months of the date of death. After that, interest starts to build up, charged daily. The estate had very little cash. The only asset that could cover the bill was the house itself.
But they were deadlocked. They could not agree to sell the house, and the older brother could not raise a mortgage against it without his brother's consent. While they argued, the interest on the unpaid tax bill mounted. The inheritance they were fighting over was shrinking with every passing day.
Administrator Liability and Cross-Border Stress
As the administrator, the older brother was personally responsible for settling the tax bill. The pressure on him was immense. He was grieving his father, fighting with his brother, and now facing liability for a six-figure tax debt. The cross-border element with his brother in Dubai only added layers of legal and practical complexity to every communication.
A properly constructed will could have appointed a professional executor to manage this. More importantly, a simple life insurance policy, written into trust, could have paid out a lump sum separate from the estate. This would have covered the IHT bill instantly. It would have bought them time. It would have removed the financial pressure that ultimately destroyed their relationship.
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Written by Sean Kiani, Estate Planner at Inheritance Made Simple. Sean writes and reviews the firm's guidance on estate planning, wills, trusts and inheritance tax, and works with families across Bournemouth, Poole, Dorset and Central London. Verify Sean's Society of Will Writers membership listing.