I sat with two adult children last year. Their father had just died. They were grieving. Then they discovered his £1.2 million estate was not theirs. Not in the way they thought.
His death was sudden. The paperwork he left behind was a mess. The family home was in his sole name. His business interests were unclear. And two families, his first and his second, were now looking at each other across a table, trying to work out what he actually intended.
The human cost was immediate. Trust collapsed. Legal letters began to arrive. The total legal fees for all parties would eventually exceed £85,000. This is the reality when estate planning is left incomplete. It is not an administrative task. It is about protecting the people you care about from conflict.
The Structural Failure
The problem was a series of simple, uncorrected errors. First, his will was 20 years old, written before his second marriage. In England, marriage automatically revokes a will. He died, legally, without one. His estate was therefore subject to the rigid rules of intestacy.
Under these rules, his new wife received the first £270,000 and half the remainder. The children from his first marriage received the other half. This was not what anyone believed he wanted.
Worse, the largest single asset, a £600,000 pension pot, went entirely to his first wife. He had completed a beneficiary nomination form when he opened the pension but never updated it after their divorce. A will, even a valid one, cannot override these forms. They are separate contracts.
The Planning Implication
For UK families, this case highlights a critical point. Pension and life assurance nominations are legally binding instructions. They sit entirely outside your will. They must be reviewed annually, and always after a major life event like a marriage, divorce, or birth.
For this family, the financial result was a fractured inheritance and an unexpected Inheritance Tax bill. The distribution dictated by intestacy rules was not tax-efficient. A correctly structured will, written to work alongside up-to-date nominations and perhaps a simple trust, would have passed the assets to the right people. It would have saved them over £100,000 in tax and prevented a year of distress.
Your plan is a set of documents. A will. A Lasting Power of Attorney. Trust instructions. They are precise instruments. Getting them wrong costs families far more than just money. We do this work every day. If you want to get it right, we can have a conversation.
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Written by Sean Kiani, Estate Planner at Inheritance Made Simple. Sean writes and reviews the firm's guidance on estate planning, wills, trusts and inheritance tax, and works with families across Bournemouth, Poole, Dorset and Central London. Verify Sean's Society of Will Writers membership listing.